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Motivating References to the EBook, Effective Parenting of Children in Their Formative Years, by C. N. C. Ejiofor and Table of Contents.

Here is a host of books by wise and experienced authors, marriage counselors, pastors, teachers, freelance writers, psychologists, medical doctors from cross cultures and continents of this globe read by this unassuming author and publisher, C. N. C. Ejiofor. Do yourself a favor to browse this concise but unique eBook contents on this blog site. The author has proved these contents working through personal experience over thirty years after marriage.

Let's go with the references to the eBook, Proper Parenting of Children in Formative Years by C. N. C. Ejiofor:

1. Petersen, Allan J. (1971) the Marriage Affair, the Family Counselor. Tyndale House Publishers, Inc. Wheaton Illinois.

2. Petersen, Allan J. (1977) For Families Only, Answering the Tough Questions Parents Ask. Tyndale House Publishers, Inc. Wheaton, Illinois, U. S. A. 

3. Petersen, Allan J. (1973) For Men Only, the Dynamics of Being a Man and Succeeding at it. Tyndale House Publishers, Wheaton, Illinois, U. S. A. 

4. Petersen, Evelyn R. and Petersen, Allan J. (1974) For Women Only, the Fine Art of Being a Woman. Tyndale House Publishers, Inc. Wheaton Illinois, U. S. A. 

5. Getz, Gene A. (1974) the measure of a Man. G/L Regal Books, a Division of G/L Publications, Glendale, California, U. S. A.

6.  Getz, Gene A. (1977) the Measure of a Woman. G/L Regal Books, a Division of G/L Publications, Glendale California, U. S. A.

7. Getz, Gene A. (1976) the Measure of a Family. G/L Regal Books, a Division of G/L Publications, Glendale, California, 91209, U. S. A.

8. Challenge Publications, Jos, Nigeria. (1984) Challenge Magazine. 

9. Dobson, James Dr. (1970,1984,2017) Dare to Discipline. Challenge Publications, P. M. B. 2108, Jos, Plateau State, Nigeria. Challenge Publications. Tyndale House Publishers, Wheaton, Illinois, U. S. A. 

10. Epp, Theodore H., Morrow, Ord L. and Weiss, Christian G. (1966) Teen Talks from the Studio No. 1. Bible Talks Given by the Back to the Bible Broadcast, compiled by  Johnson, Ruth L. Back to the Bible Broadcast, Lincoln Nebraska 68501, U. S. A.

11. Narramore, Clyde M. Ed. D. (1957, 1958, 1967,  1969, 1972, 1973) Understanding Your Children, a sound, simple, spiritual approach to successful child learning and development! Including How to Understand and Influence Children; How to Tell Your Children about Sex. Zondervan Publishing House, published by Pyramid Publications, Inc. for Zondervan Publishing House, 1415 Lae Drive, S. E., Grand Rapids, Michigan 49506, U. S. A. 

12. Narramore, Clyde M. Ed. D Young Children and their problems. Zondervan Publishing House of the Zondervan Corporation, Grand Rapids, Michigan 49506, USA.

13. Narramore, Clyde M. Ed. D (1946, 1978) Understanding and Guiding Teenagers. Zondervan Publishing House of the Zondervan Corporation, Grand Rapids, Michigan 49506, U. S. A.

14. Dehaan, Richard W. the Wonderful Difficult Years. Dehaan, Richard W. was teacher of the Radio Bible Class, now Our Daily Bread Ministries, a worldwide service through radio, television, literature and social media.

15. Lewis, C. S. (1960) the Four Loves. Collins Fount Paperbacks.

16. Friesen, Dolores. (1979) Let love Be Your Greatest. a Study Guide to a Happy Marriage. Editions Trobisch, Box 2048, D-7640 Kehl, Germany.

17. Trobisch, Walter. (1971) I Married You by Walter Trobisch, Editions Trobisch.

18. Narramore, Clyde M. (1958) Life & Love. a Christian View of Sex. Zondervan Publishing House of the Zondervan Corporation, Grand Rapids, Michigan 49506, USA.

19. Jackson, Rex. Myrick, Gladys, Editor. (1969, 1981, 1984) Marriage & Home. International Correspondence Institute, Chaussee de Waterloo, 45 1640 Rhode-Saint-Genesee (Brussels) Belgium.

20. Trobisch, Walter. (1980) I Loved A Girl. a Private Correspondence between two young Africans and their Pastor. Editions Trobisch, Box 2048,7640 Kehl/Rhein, Germany. 

21. Shedd, Charley W. (1975) Talk to Me! a warm, frank approach to the ways a woman can get her man to communicate. Spire Books, Fleming H. Revell Company, Old Tappan, New Jersey.

22. Getz, Gene A. (1975) the Measure of a Church. G/L Regal Books, a Division of G/L Publications, Glendale, California, U. S. A.

23. Narramore, Clyde M. (1961) the Unmarried Woman. Zondervan Publishing House of the Zondervan Corporation, Grand Rapids, Michigan, 49506.

24. Narramore, Clyde M. (1969) How to Build Bridges to Other People. Zondervan Publishing House of the Zondervan Corporation, Grand Rapids, Michigan, 49506, U. S. A.

25. Narramore, Clyde M. (1961) How to Begin and Improve Family Devotions. Zondervan Publishing House of the Zondervan Corporation, Grand Rapids, Michigan, 49506.

26. McGinnis, Allan Loy. (1979) the Friendship Factor. How to get closer to the people you care for. Augsburg Publishing House, Minneapolis.

27. Hagee, John and Diana. (2005, 2007) What Every Man Wants in a Woman, 10 Essentials for Growing Deeper in Love. Charisma House, a Strang Company.

28. Hagee, Diana and John. (2005, 2007) What Every Woman Wants in a Man. 10 Essentials for Growing Deeper in Love. Charisma House, a Strang Company.

29. Ghartey, John B. Forward by Otabil, Mensa A. Dr. (2009) Marriage Means More, Pragmatic Positive Principles for Building a Happy Home. Living Word Foundation, Accra, Ghana.

Now, here is the Table of Contents of the eBook, Proper Parenting of Children in Formative Years, by C. N. C. Ejiofor published in this blog site as excerpts and, as such, not in chronological order on this blog site: https://cncejiofor.blogspot.com

1. Acknowledgement.

2. Introduction.

3. Chapter One: Identifying A Parent.

4. Chapter Two: A Father’s Role.

5. Chapter Three: A Mother’s Role.

6. Chapter Four: Parent’s Joint Role

7. Chapter Five: Child Growth and Development.

8. Chapter Six: What to Condition A Child for.

9. Chapter Seven: When to Condition A Child.

10. Chapter Eight: How to Condition A Child.

11. Chapter Nine: Where to Condition A Child.

12. Chapter Ten: Why Condition A Child?

13. Chapter Eleven: When Conditioning Appears to Fail.

14. Chapter Twelve: Depending on God Almighty.

15. Chapter Thirteen: Accountable to God Almighty.

16. Conclusion.

17. References. 




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